Wedding Traditions
Something
Old
Something New
Something Borrowed
Something Blue
and a Silver Sixpence in Her Shoe.
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This good luck saying dates back
to Victorian times and many brides try to arrange their wedding attire
accordingly.
Something Old represents the link with the bride's family and the past.
Many brides choose to wear a piece of antique family jewelry or a mother's
or grandmother's wedding gown.
Something New represents good fortune and success in the bride's new
life. The wedding gown is often chosen as the new item.
Something Borrowed is to remind the bride that friends and family will
be there for her when help is needed. The borrowed object might be something
such as a lace handkerchief.
Something Blue is the symbol of faithfulness and loyalty. Often the
blue item is the garter.
A Tradition of a Silver Sixpence in her Shoe
is to wish the bride wealth.
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The Wedding Ring
The Western tradition practice of
wearing a Wedding Ring on the third finger (not including the thumb) began
in Greece in the third century B/C. The Greeks believed that there was
a vein, named the "vein of love," that ran from what we now call the Ring
finger directly to the heart. As a result, they place the ring that symbolized
love on that finger.
Later, the Romans, adopting Greek science, copied the custom and took
it one step further. Roman physicians used their ring fingers to stir
medicine, believing that since the ring finger was connected to the heart,
it could detect toxicity.
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The Bouquet
At its inception, the bouquet formed
part of the wreaths and garlands worn by both the bride and groom. It
was considered a symbol of happiness. Today the practice of tossing the
bouquet is an offshoot of throwing the garter. The single woman who catches
the bouquet is believed to be the next to marry.
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The Garter
Throwing the garter began in France
when pieces of the bridal attire were considered lucky. The bride would
throw the garter to the guests at the wedding and whoever caught it could
expect good luck. In the United States, the groom traditionally removes
the garter from the bride and throws it to the unmarried men. The man
who catches it is thought to be the next to marry. At some weddings the
man who catches the garter will place it on the leg of the lady who caught
the bouquet or they may start the next dance. It is also common for the
recipients of the bouquet and garter to have a photograph taken with the
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